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nancy
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Whats your perfect man
Posted on: 1/18/08 at 5:32 am
Here's a question for the girls, we've all heard about the perfect man but actually I'm surprised that the guys don't have a clue what we mean so here is my interpretation of it in order of importance.

First of all: age. I prefer men that are older than me, thats just a rule, I don't know why but it just works for me. Anyone younger is just an immediate turnoff. Now older doesn't mean he's the same age as my father (not really into that), between 5 to 10 years older is my target.

Secondly: Independence. Personally any guy still clinging to his mother's skirt or living with his parents isn't what I call that he's made it in the world. Show me you can cook, take care of yourself and do your own laundry and now you have some potential.

Thirdly: Looks. Now you don't have to look like Brad Pitt (although if you do please send me an email :)) but taking pride in ones appearance and making the best of what you have is what I am talking about. I agree men can't do anything about baldness and really most women I know don't really care, but body wise, try to hit the gym 3 times a week and I'm happy. But find a balance, don't be too much into your looks, thats a major turn off, any guy that spends more time looking at himself naked than looking at me naked is a no-no.

Fourthly, Carreer: Yes I know, the cliche about girls and guys with money. Frankly I just want someone who has a good job and take care of himself financially and that his always seeking to improve himself with either university courses or whatever, ambition and drive is a great thing, and it also motivates everyone around you to do the same. I don't care really if you are a millionaire or not, I can take care of myself financially but don't be a burden one me.

And Finally, personality. Be easy going, take life as it comes at you, don't freak out or panic and try to beat another guy up because he took your parking at Wal-Mart. Trust me a guy that can keep his cool in any situation is a major turn-on.
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t80lee
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RE: Whats your perfect man
Posted on: 4/18/08 at 9:47 am
hmmmm for me the perfect guy is the guy will love you with all his heart and you are the most beautiful woman on his eyes...if there's a guy like this exist lucky i can be marrried but if none hmmmm better i enjoy my singleness and have fun and live to fullest every day........
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RE: Whats your perfect man
Posted on: 7/8/08 at 3:55 am
MY MAN PLAYS SPORTS AND IS ATHLETIC LOOKING,NOT CONCERNED ABOUT LOOKING AT OTHER WOMEN,HELL I DO THAT TO.CAN BE ANYWHERE FROM5-7 TO 6-1 NO HAIRY CHEST,OR HAIRY REAR.HUMOROUS AND AT TIMES VERY SERIOUS,LAUGHS AT HIMSELF.LOVE ANIMALS. REPECTS THERE WELL BEING.AND LOOKS GOOD IN WRANGLER WEAR.HOPR HES A RAIDER FAN.SEASON TICKET HOLDER.DOESNT HAVE TO HAVE A HUGE COCK TO PLEASE ME 7 TO 8 INCHES IS FINE MUST LOVE TO ORALLY PLEASE ME ME CAUSE I LOVE TO PLEASE MY MAN THAT WAY.MUST WANT TO ROLE PLAY IN THE BEDROOM OR WHERE EVER MOOD STRIKES.A THE PERFECT MAN SHOULD BE ABLE TO MAKE LOVE AS WELL AS GIVE ME A GOOD FUCKIN.SHOULD BE SELF RELIENT LOVE HIS JOB. CARE WHAT I THINK AND SAY.
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RE: Whats your perfect man
Posted on: 7/31/08 at 1:44 am
My perfect man (not in order of importance):
- taller then me wearing heels (I'm 5'11")
- takes care of his body/appearance/health by working out regularly and eating healthy
- is hardworking and has a successful career
- is a good dancer. I'm obsessed with salsa dancing and he should either already know how to salsa or be able to pick it up quickly
- makes me lough and can carry an interesting conversation
- has graduated from at least college
- loves to travel, trying new ethnic foods and drinking wine
- will go with me to the ballet, opera, museums, and art shows
- enjoys my cooking
- can last a very long time in the bedroom ;-)